3 Things I Learned From ATX Blogger Mixer (Bonus Big Giveaway!)

I was already an hour late. I clicked on the map link inside the e-invitation and drove like mad to make it to my second ATX Blogger Mixer at Raven + Lily.

I was so excited to get to see their new store and what kind of accessories my closet might need.

Honestly, last time I went to a blogger gathering I felt like I looked like everyone’s preppy mom.

But this time I had a new dress with jewelry on, so at least I felt like I was somewhere on the playing field.

When I showed up I pulled on the door and it was locked. I frantically pulled my phone out to examine the map. The linked map was set to their anchor location and the party was being held at their new location about 20 minutes away.

I fretted as sweat began to pour down my freshly made up face . What should I do? The party was going to end soon yet I had been so looking forward to my second mixer, if only to get a re-do from My First ATX Blogger Mixer.

I manually plugged the store’s new address into my GPS and sped away determined to make it. I thought I should go anyway, you never know what you might miss. Isn’t there an acronym for this, like fear of missing out?

Note to self, it’s a good idea to double check your GPS links and make sure they’re updated or just manually type in the address.

I arrived with a good 45 minutes left in the mixer.

The Raven + Lily store is beautiful in every way. Raven + Lily was created to alleviate poverty among women. They help employ over 1,500 marginalized women at fair trade wages. Their products are hand made and follow fair trade standards.

Meet my new retail crush. With everything from home goods, jewelry to handbags and clutches.

Oh Happy Day Photo Booth

Shortbread Baking Co. provided these oh so cute cookies!

As I mingled throughout the store, I wondered if I’d meet anyone who could relate to my struggles on this blogging thing.

Then I bumped into a young food blogger as we were eying the same pair of earrings. We laughed and talked about each other’s blogs.

She introduced me to another blogger whose focus is supporting moms who breastfeed and another who runs a great Facebook group for mom bloggers. She graciously invited me to join the group of creative women who support each other. We chit chatted for a bit.

But what I realized in that moment is that it really doesn’t matter what our niche is, where we come from, or what our background is. We have this one thing in common and yes, we both have similar challenges, ideas to share, and solutions to help each other.

I was so encouraged and really glad that I showed up anyway.

Not to mention, I was introduced to what is now my favorite beverage of the summer.

Meet Mighty Swell. Peach, grapefruit or lemon! Pick your flavor and sip it at the pool, in the park, or in your backyard. It’s so light and so refreshing.

I learned to set your GPS to the address you actually know, especially when it’s a new location. I learned I love the heart behind Raven + Lily and that’s why it’s my new fave boutique, and it doesn’t matter your differences, there’s always something to learn.

Have you ever experienced a time when you were glad you showed up anyway?

I’d love to know about it here in the comments. I can’t wait until the fall ATX Blogger Mixer.


As a bonus, I have a giant giveaway you don’t want to miss!

I have teamed up with some awesome bloggers and creatives to bring to you an AMAZING giveaway bundle full of things that all bloggers and creatives love (and need!) in celebration of Coffee With Summer’s 2nd Blogiversary!
All you have to do to enter to win all of these goodies is to complete as many tasks as you would like to! The more tasks you complete, the more chances you have of winning!
The giveaway runs from July 26th – August 3rd and the winner will be notified and announced on the Rafflecopter form by Saturday, August 6th. All entries will be verified before choosing a winner. Enter fairly!

What’s all in the giveaway:

  • The Happiness Planner
  • Huge black tote bag
  • Big Magic book
  • 365 Blog Topic Ideas Book
  • Phone Tripod With Remote
  • French Press Coffee Maker
  • Macaroon Note Card Set
  • Pink “Like A Boss” Pencil Case
  • Black “Dreams Take Hustle” Pencil Case
  • Pencil pack
  • Oops eraser
  • Sticky Notes
  • Candle
  • Jumbo Gold Paper Clips
  • 2 Prints – “You Can Really Do Whatever You Want” & “You Are Capable” (not pictured)
  • “Hello Lovely” mug from A Tiny Traveler Creative (not pictured)
  • Coffee With Summer Venti Blog Sponsorship Spot 

a Rafflecopter giveaway


  1. Man I wish there was a cool local bloggers group by me. New York and Long Island are very isolated when it comes to blogging communities – makes me sad! Sounds like an awesome event.

  2. Thanks for sharing. I always wonder what these things are like. The introvert in me is petrified to actually be face to face with other bloggers! : / I love the look of your blog by the way.

    • Thank you Christina! I’m with you, it was a little daunting to show up 🙂 Thank you for stopping by. Tracy

  3. This is so cute! What a fun idea for a get together with other bloggers in your area 🙂

  4. Awesome job being brave and showing up anyways, in spite of the GPS problems! I’m glad you went. I haven’t been, but I’d love to go to a blogger mixer event someday, I know it would challenge my introvert tendencies!

  5. Those cookies are adorable! So glad you had a fun time.

    xoxo, Jenny

  6. wow, impressive………….you are really good at this……………..

  7. I am so sad I missed the ATX Blogger Mixer!!! Looks like it was a lot of fun! And I missed the giveaway but next time for sure! Great recap and great post! Hope to meet you soon!

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